Good day fellow women lovers. Today, your good buddy Derek is going to refresh your mind about the  5 mistakes that are the most likely to screw up a first date. So, if you want to have a chance of establishing a good relationship with her, here are the five things to absolutely avoid when dating a lady for the first time.

 

1-    First of all, showing up late is probably one of the biggest mistakes you can make on a first date. It will start it out on the completely wrong foot and give her the impression that you are not a considerate man. It will also make her think that you are somewhat disorganized and not trustworthy. As the first impression is the most important, you will already have a strike against you even before you get there and it’s going to be a steep uphill climb to regain any ground with her. Be there first, it always helps.attentif

2-    A second quite important aspect on that determining first date is how you look when she first puts her eyes on you and how you smell when you first get close to her. So, on any date, and particularly on that precious first one, never wear soiled or wrinkled clothes and make sure that your oral and physical hygiene is faultless. Any woman will be turned off by sloppy clothing and body odors; so, if you don’t want to be on the first train to Loser Ville make sure you’re neatly dressed and that she won’t wish she was wearing a gas mask.hygiene

3-    The third thing you should be very attentive to in order not to screw that first date is to avoid being too nervous and drowning this nervousness in booze. Obviously, everybody, including her, is a bit nervous on a first date, but calming one’s nerves with too many drinks is a sure way to end-up looking like a moron in a woman’s eyes. So, keep your drinking to a minimum and don’t ever try to get your date intoxicated; this kind of behaviour always marks down a man as a loser.drunken_man

4-    A fourth serious mistake on a first date is being a show-off.  A big ego often turns to be a real lady-killer…and not in a good way at all! The more you brag about how much money you make, how good you are at your job or, worse, how intriguing most women find you, the less she will be interested. Keep a little air of mystery about you instead, and you’ll probably get a second date. Blabber on and on, and you will look like a narcissistic moron.check-my-phone-babe

5-    The fifth important mistake to avoid is being a space invader. Just be charming, let her breathe and wait for her to signal that she wishes you to move closer. Women often find it creepy and unappealing when a man tries right from the beginning to invade their personal space. So, let the intimacy slowly build-up and watch her body language before crowding or trying to touch her. Being pushy makes a woman stiffen and that’s one of the best ways to be dropped from her date book.rejected-